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WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? RUN!!!!


I'm boiling with rage. I just do not understand some ladies. And honestly I don't think I ever will.
You continue to remain in a relationship where you are tolerated and not valued. You lower all you principles just to make it work. No attention, no care, no respect, nothing. And to add insults to injury he keeps on making you feel less of yourself by highlighting your flaws and shortcomings as though he is perfect. (A cheek of it)
Even a pet can love and treat you better than this.  I don't know why you said yes in the first place but I strongly believe it wasn't because you wanted to be used as a cook, a washing machine, a sex machine or a maid. (with no monthly salary too)
  You continue to make excuses for them. "They will change. I just need to love them more. I just need to patience with him. Maybe if i stop talking to that friend he dislikes, he will see how committed I am." He says he doesn't want other guys looking at you, so he insists you treat skinny jeans like a plague.He says he doesn't like it when you apply makeup, so u stop. What will you use then? Powder?Ahba. Take his phone and you will see his poses with girls who have 3D makeup on. Wake up and get a whiff of the smoke. This is just the begginnig. Very soon you will have no friends to talk to or hang out with. And when he finally dumps you, it will hurt twice as much.
Its time you realize not everything is destined to work. If all relationships led to marriage, I'm sure your future husband would be married by now.
Grow a pair already. Walk away from that relationship.(did I say walk, I mean run) Yes its going to hurt. But it will hurt more when he tells you that he has moved on. It will hurt more when he introduces his new girl to you whilst you are still in La la land with him. Maamel3 make yourself a gem. Learn a new skill. Direct your energy into making yourself better and stronger. You know you have succeeded when a man becomes a want and not a need.

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